I’m excited to share a very important message. Sundays are usually for overeating and catching up on my shows but I spent this Sunday brainstorming on a look that promotes my point of this post: The importance in being bold and confident within yourself. I chose PINK girly vibes because I’d like to voice this to my ladies.
As women, we go through situations that sometimes lead us to question ourselves. “Am I pretty enough to be a model? Why doesn’t he love me? She says she’s better looking than I am. Is she?” Our minds can do some really strange things. Sometimes we allow the criticism or treatment from others to block us from accepting the dire need of being 120% confident within ourselves. We forget that WE set the standard. That’s where we mess up at. We’ve got to stop giving people so much power to the point it forces us to shut down and doubt ourselves, there’s so much harm in doing that. Let me let you in on something: The beauty in individuality is that not one person in this whole entire world can ever possess the traits that make you, you. Nor can they ever take that from you. Did you think about that? God blessed the world with your existence for a reason. You are a blessing (I SAID A BLESSING) and that reason of existence is called “purpose.” To identify and serve your purpose, you must fall in love with who you truly are and be CONFIDENT within yourself 1st. That’s why it’s so important babe! Im here to confirm that yes you are beautiful and there’s no need for comparison because there is none. Regardless of what anyone’s opinion of you may be, there is only one you. Choose self love, choose self worth and choose YOU.
2018 and on is all about getting to it by any means necessary. It’s also about BRAND BUILDING and BUILDING EACHOTHER UP LADIES. What else is womanhood for?
For the record: this was not the plan. Just like every other woman in the world, I’m going through what we call “gaining weight” aka GETTING THICK. Shock’s dress code was grown and sexy and when I tell you I had the perfect dress! It all went wrong when it came time to put it on. Unfortunately plan A, B and C didn’t work. Pushed for time, I had no choice but to piece together the cutest things I saw in front of me and this was the end result:
•Black Bralette- Nordstrom
•Black Adidas sweats
•Black Hustla boot- Fashionnova.com
•Nude/black boxed shape purse- Aldo
I’m very particular when it comes to what I’m wearing so I prefer not to rush when choosing. It was a lot going on though lol: my dress didn’t fit, I ripped my trousers trying to jump into them and I can go on. Completely over it, I chose to go with the look I’m best at: comfy. Not knowing what to expect, I felt underdressed at first but I got so many compliments on something so spare of the moment! A look that was said to give off Aaliyah vibes✨. Now that’s lit. Last minute outfits always turn out to be the best.